This simply moves some functions that were "swarm notifications" to a network behaviour implementation.
Notes
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- We could disconnect from the peer manager but we would lose the rpc shutdown message
- We still notify from the swarm since this is the most reliable way to get some events. Ugly but best for now
- Events need to be pushed with "add event" to wake the waker
Co-authored-by: Divma <26765164+divagant-martian@users.noreply.github.com>